I stare at pictures of many happy families often. I am at the age now where all of my friends are popping out babies and posting them on social media. I often think about not knowing the backstories of the families in the pictures. How many have had difficult lives? How many cheated or are still with their cheating significant other? How many are with a narcissistic husband or wife and either know or don’t know about it? And then I wonder, if you're the person looking in on a relationship with someone from your past, what do you do?
I think often about how I should have put my ex husband’s cheating partner in her place. I wonder if it would have made me feel better? I mean she was married too and knew she was committing adultery. When I start to get in my head, I have the conversations of what I would have loved to say to her. Then, I think about how I might be a better person for not calling her out on the real person that she is. I certainly know I am thankful she did do what she did. Honestly, I should be thanking her because she saved me from a narcissist I didn’t even know I was married to at the time. So reader, what do you think? Maybe you have your own stories to share. Should I have put his cheating partner in her place along with his? Have you done this type of thing before? What was your outcome? Do share!!!
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